Inspired by our motorcycle trip from Pennsylvania to the west coast. This is our daily log, pictures and record of immense blessings. Join us as we travel down the road, on the move.
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Six...
Since Dawn and I are down to six days before blasting into the Great Adventure, it was even more meaningful to us [of course, we wouldn't miss it even if we weren't leaving this weekend!]. Over the years we have seen rain, sleet and snow at these events but once in a while, we actually have really nice weather. This year was windy and cold so as you can see in the pictures, leather was the fashion for the day.
After lunch, which was provided, we had some heartfelt words and a brief moment of silence for Ron Nickerson, a member of a local Gold Wing riders club who recently unexpectedly passed away in his sleep. There was prayer for all who were there, then prayers over each of the bikes and riders.
After a brief time of fellowship, some of us hit the road for a ride to Ashtabula, Ohio, were we stopped in at the E-comm Cafe for some great coffee and fellowship. Then, on our way home we stopped to see the longest covered bridge in the U.S. [and it is the second longest covered bridge in the world!], the new Smolen-Gulf Bridge, located in Ashtabula, Ohio on Highway 25.
This turned out to be another blessed weekend as we once again got to see a lot of friends and family. Will was able to come in for the weekend and spend some more time with Jackie. It has been a real pleasure getting to know him and watch the two of them foster a relationship. Jackie was doubly blessed because she got to show him her new car (a 2001 Ford Escort, ZX2), which I continue to correct her by pointing out that my name is on the title. Haha Jackie, sorry, but it is true! She is psyched because it is red and has a sunroof! That makes it a good car, you know!
Friday, May 29, 2009
Ready... Set...
We had the route carefully planned and the major points of interest that were a must to see- the kids had even given some of their input as well - and we were finally ready to pull out of the driveway. Dawn's parents, Mary and Mel, Dawn and I, and Adam and Jackie. That's right, all of us in a 31' Winnebago Adventurer motor home! We would share the expenses of the trip and make some awesome memories together - this is going to be a blast!
As we pull out of town on Rt. 6 and cross into Ohio, Mary decides that she needs to use the toilet - yes, while we were rolling down the road! Who knows what she's thinking - we just left the house, not even five minutes ago! A few minutes pass and Mel brings the big rig to a stop at an intersection, looks both ways, and seeing that all is clear, he guns it.
Kaa-lummp!!!
We are all startled by the loud sound and groans from the bathroom, and we quickly yell, "Mom, are you alright in there?" [More groaning...]
We rush back to see what had happened and ensure she is okay, only to find that when Dad stopped, Mom thought it was a good time to stand up, and just as he gunned it, she flopped into the bathtub! What a way to start the trip!
Jackie ended up with bubbles in her eyes at our first stop in Michigan and later in the Grand Canyon, accidentally dropped a can of pop from the refrigerator that got punctured on the way to the floor on a grate, creating a spinning little mini-geyser right there in the motor home which tripped one of the gas sensors and shut down the entire motor home electrical system!
Adam had to tolerate his sister's constant babbling and invasion of his space [he always was a really good big brother!]. He also got a lot of mileage out of the Asian family we heard practicing their English in Yellowstone National Park, "Bi-shawn! Buffalo. Buffalobuffalobuffalo!"
Of course, there was the snow that we woke up to in Yellowstone [in July!] and the fender-bender at the Grand Canyon, and tons and tons and tons of fun! Waking every day to spend all day as a family with no outside responsibilities or phone calls [no cell phone then!] or jobs to get done! Only new sights and experiences to enjoy; true wonders to behold! A bit overstated? NO WAY!
Some people think that you can stay home and look at pictures or watch documentaries and see a place, because after all, "you are just looking at a bunch of mountains and trees with water sprinkled around here and there." But you can never experience the same sense of awe that you get when standing at the base of the Rockies or at the base of a giant sequoia tree feeling rather insignificant and realizing that there are things in this world much bigger than we are! The thought that it all happened by chance is simply absurd.
That trip was many years ago and it still remains one of my best memories - perhaps my all-time favorite vacation. [And that is not overstated] It was fantastic!
Mary was a bit unsteady on her feet back then and we came to find out soon after that vacation that she not only had COPD [a degenerative lung disease] to deal with, but she was also diagnosed with PSP [a degenerative form of palsy]. She is not doing so well these days but she and Mel are encouraging us to go and make those memories that only time spent away from the craziness of daily life and time spent with each other can foster.
Now, perhaps I should be worried because as Dawn got onto the motorcycle today as we were leaving on an errand, she caught her toe on the saddle and stumbled a bit... hmmm... I hope there is no soda pop geyser or fender bender in store for us!
And so, today the magic number is 8; which happens to be spelled V-E-R-Y-S-O-O-N!
[This is Mary and Mel at their 50th Anniversary, still in love!]
Thursday, May 28, 2009
NINE
Dawn is feeling like she should be packing because that is what we always do the week before a big trip - fill the camper with food and clothes. Yesterday she said that next week at this time we will be packing our bags. Haha! Like, what's there to pack? She is so funny sometimes! It's a motorcycle, so we could through our stuff in our bags the night before, load the bike, and be on our way first thing Sunday morning. Wow, is that different!
You know what else is different? The price of gas! How is it that every year just before summer the prices begin to soar? Oh, believe me, I understand the fundamental principles of supply and demand, but it is ironic that the price of crude oil goes up one night and the price at the pump goes up the next day. There is no way that the cost of the crude effected the cost of the gas in the tank underground at the gas station the very next day!
The only good thing about it is that we are riding Black Beauty on this vacation and getting somewhere around 45 miles to the gallon and not our truck and camper combo which gets 10 mpg! Let's see, if we go 7000 miles getting 10 miles to the gallon, it would take 700 gallons. If gas is up to $3.00/gallon this summer, that would be $2100 just in gas! On the other hand, with Black Beauty going 7000 miles at 45 mpg = 155.55 gallons. $3.00 gas would then add up to $466.65, a fraction of the truck/camper cost! [Hope I didn't lose you with all that math!]
So, how do you spell excited? We spell it N-I-N-E
Don't forget to get in on our poll, we are curious to see what you think.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Cast Your Vote
So, we were wondering what you are thinking of the trip we have dubbed the Great Adventure. There is a poll in the right hand column of the site which you can cast your vote in, then open it up to see the results [at least I think you can open it to see the results - this is the first poll that I've tried]. You only have 6 days to answer, so don't wait.
Here we go... friends... grab that mouse and "start your polls!"
By the way, how do you spell eleven?!!! hahaha
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
The Fog
Saturday, May 23, 2009
It Happened Again
See, diversions aren't always counterproductive. In fact, diversions like we had today are great! Thanks again, Adam!
Friday, May 22, 2009
Friends
You see, the insurance company of the young lady who totalled our car has been very slow to resolve the issue. For 21 days we have been trying to patiently work with them for an amicable solution and they are beginning to drive me crazy! I am a very patient guy, but was nearing the end of my rope! Thankfully, by the end of the day, one of the supervisors actually cared enough to verbally state that he wanted to make this right. I am hopeful.
Then came the venting to Dawn and Adam, the bubbly phone call from Jackie and the incessant bothersome licks from our dog, Bear. That was the beginning of a great evening.
And so, that is where friends and God's timing come in. We had invited several friends over for dinner far before running into all of this "stuff" and the timing of the evening was perfect. It had been far too long since we spent an evening laughing and telling stories, simply catching up. Great times with friends are incredibly therapeutic and laughter truly is wonderful medicine. Thanks for stopping in Rita, Tyler, Steve, Brenda, Tim, Katie, and Brandon [in order of appearance], you guys are great!
Things just might turn around. Regardless, one thing is for certain, all in God's good time. I believe that for all things, there is a purpose - we simply need to do our part, then allow it to unfold.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Almost Christmas!
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Have We Met?
Sometimes our plans don't pan out like we think they will. As Dawn arrived they asked if she wanted to help teach one of the grade levels! When I came home from work that evening, she told me she would be helping teach in one of the classrooms for the week and I about fell over. They didn't even know her! What kind of church would do such a thing?!
As it turned out, everybody thought she was from one of the other churches in town and by the end of a wonderful week in vacation bible school with the kids, Dawn introduced me to several of the people she had met. It just felt like we had known them for a very long time. Well, we decided to go to the church service on Sunday morning and, well, so much for looking into several churches because we simply felt like we were "home". Did you ever have that feeling you have known someone for a very long time, and yet, you have just met? That was how it felt walking into our new church - well, it was new to us 17 years ago, that is.
Jackie experienced something like that recently, and in turn, Dawn and I did as well. It seems that a young Prince Charming has entered her life and she couldn't wait for us to meet this young man who had made a great impression on her. It was like they have known each other forever, and yet had just recently met. You know the feeling, you don't come across that every day, but when you do it feels great.
Well, we have had the pleasure of spending a few hours with Will, and it seems that we too, have known him for a long time. We found that we have much in common - family, faith, and interests. It is uncanny when such things happen but always a treat. We thoroughly enjoyed dinner as the four of us talked and laughed the evening away. It is always interesting to see where our pathways lead and who we come to know along the way.
May God continue to bless you, Will, in all you do!
The Rain
On the way to Jackie's college, we went through several pockets of rain. Only a couple of them were heavy and all of them were relatively brief. We passed a couple dozen bikes heading northbound, all of them were wearing their rain gear and they seemed just fine. We might as well get used to the idea that we are going to get wet on our Great Adventure.
The reality is that anyone who rides will eventually get wet. When you think about it, that is just a reflection of life. Sometimes it's sunny and sometimes it's not; sometimes it's warm and sometimes it's not; sometimes it's rainy and sometimes it's not.
Dawn and I have experienced the gamut of "weather" in our married life and are so grateful that, through the grace of God, we had both the level of commitment and the strength to honor each other, our marriage, and our Lord. We are at an interesting place in our lives together, somewhere in the middle of our adult life [or so we hope, Lord willing]. We can look back and appreciate all the tremendous blessings, be thankful for the times we stood by each other (even when we didn't feel like it), and view the storms we have been through from a totally different perspective.
We hear from so many couples that have weathered the storms of life that say they are better because of it. Well, we too can attest to that. Through honoring each other, even in the tough times, character and trust has been forged into our marriage. Strength and deep love are the outcome. We have viewed each other as best friends for a very long time and have realized that even as best friends we have minor, and sometimes even major disputes but that doesn't change the respect we have for one another, just how much we actually say at that given time.
So standing in the middle of our adult life together, we have the great blessing of looking forward. We know that sometimes we will find ourselves in the middle of the swirling veils of mist during the downpours of life, but we also know the roadway we are on will remain true and will continue to be solid and trustworthy. In those moments we will simply slow down so we can see enough roadway directly ahead of us, knowing that the destination doesn't have to be is sight at all times to know we are on the right path. And ohhh, when the rain clears there is sa-wwweeeet warm sunshine waiting on the other side!
Trust and honor one another... ride on - it's sa-wwweeeet!
Friday, May 15, 2009
C'mon Dad!
"Today Adam? I'm really busy and have a ton of work to do."
"Please, Dad? It won't take very long, will it?"
What a fun day that was. The kids couldn't wait to get the pool up. We had to get sand for a base, pull up the sod and level the spot. That meant putting everything else on the back burner for the day, but ohhhh, was it worth it! We worked together [well, maybe I did the work and they were prodding me on with the familiar, "Are we ready to put it up now?!" statements] all afternoon.
Our dog, Libby, and our neighbor, Missy, even got in on the fun. Three kids and a dog, jumping in and out of the trailer into the sand pile [the same sand pile that I was supposed to be spreading out as a base for the pool] squealing with joy, laughing and goofing around. It warmed my heart then as it does today remembering it.
By the end of the day, we did get the pool up, though it took most of the day to do so. But in the end we had a great time and made some memories that have lasted a lifetime. [it helped that Dawn video taped most of the action like we did for most of the kids lives! Couldn't help it, they were so cool!] That was a long time ago.
Anyway, when Adam came home today and asked to go for a ride - which I had been thinking about all day, and it was a beautiful sun shiny day - I unfortunately had to decline. After all, I had to get a load of wood in. Priorities are priorities, sorry. Come on Adam, there are only 3 weeks left before we leave on the Great Adventure and we have to bring in at least four more truck loads to be sure we can get through next winter! [In case you didn't already guess, we heat with wood]
"Dad, it's a great day for a ride!"
Of course, it wasn't too hard for him to talk me into it - he gave a few reasons why I should go and after a little prodding, I once again caved. The wood could wait. A short ride would still leave plenty of time to get a load of wood in and as Adam so aptly pointed out, Mom would be home from work when we get back so she could go with me and help with the wood. Sounded like a game plan that could work! After all, didn't I just write yesterday about taking some time to R&R once in a while?
The ride was a nice break. Our bikes rolling down the back roads, my son and I taking in the fresh air and open road - ohhh, what a nice break! We were gone for a little under an hour, but it was very refreshing. Thanks, Adam, great idea!
Tomorrow we go to pick Jackie up from college and I am really looking forward to seeing her again. We will pack her dorm room tomorrow and come home on Sunday (after she sings for graduation). So, Sunday the family will finally be back together again and that will be very nice. Hmmm... I wonder what the kids will get me into next... Sorry kids, no more pools!
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Life Can Be Crazy!
Life is crazy sometimes. It seems that each generation gets crazier than the last and there is no real end in sight for us. I remember the big push for computers was that they would make our lives so much better by being so efficient, our work weeks would drop to 30 hours per week and we would still accomplish more! Haha!
Well, in some ways that is true. We can accomplish far more with them than we could without - no doubt, but is it better?
Our cars run much better than those of our grandparents and the roads are way better, too. That means we can do more running, I suppose. That's right, run, run, run, run, run!
Wow, can life ever get crazy!
But I have found that it is critically important to take some time to slow down, relax and recharge and I find myself doing just that.
It is a beautiful afternoon. Before running over to the school and direct my band kids through a concert (which should be a great evening that I will certainly enjoy), a peaceful moment has gotten hold of me. Sitting here on the deck, the warm spring breeze, the birds and the water fountain, ahhh.
Okay, so this isn't a crazy posting like some of my others. Just a moment to realize how important it is to take some time to rest and enjoy the beauty of all that surrounds us. The Lord has promised, "Come to me all you who are weary and heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." I find refuge in Him often.
Enjoy your day!
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
One Step Closer
Real men don't need directions. Right? Wow, has that ever gotten me in trouble before!
In this case, I did read the instructions for our new headsets before installing them in our new helmets. Nothing new in the instructions though. Just a lot of blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
I must say, it is a bit disconcerting to cut into brand new helmets in order to make the new headsets fit, but after a very careful two hours, both helmets were fit with their respective electronics. What a difference the new helmets make - they actually have enough room next to the ears so the earpieces don't even touch the ear which definitely equals comfort and ohhhh, do they sound good!
Dawn and I really like talking to each other while riding [unlike some other riders we've talked to]. Can you believe that some guys actually get louder pipes and will never get intercoms - they don't want to talk to their lady at all! Ah, but they don't know what they are missing! Dawn and I have the best conversations while on the bike. We don't know what it is about a bike; maybe the fresh air, maybe that we are sitting so close, maybe that there is so much to see and you feel closer to your surroundings.
Regardless of why it happens, we wouldn't ride without an intercom now, so it was well worth the investment of both time and hard cold cash.
So, now we are one step closer to the Great Adventure! 24 days and counting!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
25 And Counting
But I look at all the other projects that still need to be done and wonder how I will be able to get it all done in time. And the grass, it isn't helping us out either, not at all - it is growing like crazy! We are thinking about letting it grow for a couple weeks and then bailing it to sell to some farmers! Any buyers out there?
Thinking of all this has me reminiscing about the dreams Dawn and I had when we were 25. It sure seemed like 50 would be way off in the very, very distant future and yet, here we are knocking on its door. It seemed like I would feel really old, but actually, I still feel really young (until I put in a couple chords of wood, then I feel really, really old!), but other than that, I do feel very young - for the most part.
Even when I look in the mirror - still feel really young... no wrinkles or gray hair, no age spots or flaking skin. That is, as long as I don't put my glasses on. As soon as I do that, I see my dad in the mirror staring back at me! Like magic the wrinkles are really obvious. I find that there is no gray hair because there is little hair left to look at! But hey, my dad has already plowed this ground and he is still doing great [he wouldn't complain even if he didn't feel great] so as far as I am concerned, this is a very good place to be!
Thanks, Dad, for showing me how to do this age thing. You have said many times that you don't ever care to grow up - and I'm not gonna lie - you haven't! Haha! But when I grow up, I wanna be just like you! Actually, that is probably one of the reasons why we are going on this Great Adventure - you know, while we still can; before we grow up!
Sunday, May 10, 2009
The Beast
Knowing the nature of the beast and its very predictable patterns of behavior, the warrior made his plan to rid the tribe of the beast once and for all! With the ladies and children safely well out of reach of the frightful beast, the warrior put his plan of attack into action. In methodical confidence he set his trap and began the waiting game - the wicked beast is definitely a crafty foe and patience was the key to luring it into his snare.
The plan? Simple. Kill the beast!
As a diversion, the warrior takes his lady on a long journey ensuring both her safety and a sense of security to well up within the beast - it can surely sense the mighty warriors presence and would never come near the encampment with him still within its walls. The warrior and his lady take advantage of the journey, enjoying fellowship with tribal members living in faraway lands and they enjoy a fantastic feast of fatted bull and other spoils of the land. The time spent together is sweet, somewhat surreal, especially in light of the snare waiting to spring on the unsuspecting beast!
As the beast enters the encampment, with all of the occupants in safety, he unsuspectingly takes the bait and falls for the mighty warriors trap! In the blink of an eye the vicious beast can only see a brief flash of steel pass over its head. There is absolutely no time to react and the beast knows he has lost the epic battle for survival and then, everything goes black as life passes from his being in one last, slow exhale of breath.
With confidence in the snare he had set before their departure, the warrior returns with his lady, proudly allowing her the honor of finding the beast - that fearful pestilence that simply would not rest until it had struck its fear into the encampment.
As she peeks into the drawer where the trap had been laid, my lady, Dawn found the mouse in the trap, just as I, the mighty warrior, had planned! Ha! That little rascal will not bother my lady again!
I am sorry that I couldn't post a picture of the mouse beast, but I thought that would simply be over the top and too much for the young to view, it might even bring about nightmares. No instead, I will simply sign off with a mothers day wish for all who may read this entry...
Mothers, you are truly a gift from God above. Your depth of love and care for your children is never really understood by them; seldom appreciated for the work that you do and yet, you continue to shower them with blessings. You always want the best for them and fret over their welfare. You worry more about them than anything else in your life because they mean everything to you.
Only a mother can understand what it truly feels like to bring that little life into the bright world filled with promise and hope. But in the flash of a moment, time passes and the mother must let her child leave the safety of her home and fly off into a world which now seems full of danger and trouble. She is only left with a prayer. A very deep heartfelt prayer - and she waits.
The answer she longs for finally comes, "Fear not, for I am with you always. Trust in me." And so, she lets go and watches her precious one fly; she is flooded with emotions untold.
Thank you, mothers, for your continued prayers. Without them, we could never survive!
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Packed and Ready - I Think!
Friday, May 8, 2009
Dogs
Dogs are pretty special creatures, aren't they? This is Bear and he drives me crazy sometimes, but he is a good dog. He sheds all the time, has a licking problem and thinks he is a cat [you know, the way they walk all around and between your legs!]. It is fun to tease about finding him another home, but truth be told, I would never trade him off or give him away.
The e-mail about how special dogs are is going around again. You know the one - it says that we should be more like them because dogs do things like: When loved ones come home, always run to greet them; allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy; take naps; stretch before rising; and run, romp, and play daily. There were many more, but you get the idea.
Now, I don't know about you, but I'm glad that I was not born into the canine world, thank you very much. Humankind can greet each other with a hug, kiss or a simple handshake - I just don't think that I would be up to wagging my tail and sniffing your butt the next time I see you!
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Hey Mom, Just For You
Mom came home one day and asked if I would like to look at a motorcycle. Like, what, are you kidding me?! Would I even consider turning that one down? Not on your life! I had to ask what she was talking about, pinch myself really hard and get over my chin which had fallen onto the floor before getting out the word (yes, singular!), "Why?"
For all the work I had done on the farm that year, this would be my pay! You have got to be kidding me, right?!
We brought that little sweetheart home and I simply could not get over the fact that it was mine - all mine! Oh sure, I had a bike before this one - a little Rupp Scrambler that my brother and I rode into the ground! We bought the Rupp with money we earned putting in hay over a summer for a local farmer. But this, this Suzuki was a real machine! And oh, was she ever a looker. I just couldn't help but polish it up - ahhemmm - well, that one time anyhow.
After that, it wasn't long before it was packed with mud from front to back and the chrome pieces started coming off [I honestly don't know whether they fell off due to rough abuse or I took them off so it would look more like a race bike; either way I really rode it hard!].
Mom, you always have a way of catching me at my best moments and encouraging them. You have had, and continue to have a way of finding the best in me and most everyone you come in contact with - for that I will always be grateful. That first bike had me puffed up like a peacock with pride and it was all because you knew my heart and my desires and always looked for ways to make special things happen!
Well, that was me then and I thought you would like to see me now... not much has really changed after all, has it? Now there is a little less hair and an entire lifetime of other sweet memories sandwiched in between like the best Oreo cookie in the world! I will always praise God for the blessings he has showered me with through you! Thanks!
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Way to Go Kiddo!
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
"The Plan"
Alright, alright already! Enough is enough. For those of you who cannot stand the idea of our Great Adventure plans of, "get on the bike and head west till we hit the ocean, turn around and head east until we come somewhere near home" - we have decided to draw a line for you.
This blue line represents nearly 7000 miles of secondary roads. If we average only 200 miles a day, we could complete the loop in 35 days. If we average 300 miles a day, that number drops to 23 days and leaves some time to stop and enjoy some of the locations for a day here and there. So the bottom line is, we will see what the Good Lord wants us to see and the rest will have to wait for another trip!
Now, the reality is that plans change sometimes unexpectedly. At least they do in our lives. I am reminded of this girl in high school who was marching across the football field in band camp so many years ago. Wow, did my plans change! She was a real cutie! I told my friends, "I'm gonna marry her someday!"
A couple weeks later at a football game, hanging out at the top of the stands cheering for the team and getting to know that cutie a bit more - I started picking on her as my family so aptly taught me to do. [My dad's family was masters of picking and joking with each other. Oh, the stories they have told. And so, they passed that same ability on to us kids] So while picking on that cutie in the stands that night - just for fun, mind you - she warned me to cut it out, or else... and she made a little fist to threaten me with. Oooohh, scary!
"Hey, don't wave that thing at me unless you plan to use it," I said, as I pointed at my chin. Little did I know that she had a killer right hook! You know, that was the last time I invited her to hit me cause she didn't even hesitate, didn't even bat an eye at the idea! Yessirree - plans can surely change in the blink of an eye!
So maybe our plans will change because of some unforeseen reason. Maybe we are biting off more than we can handle with this crazy Great Adventure. Who knows? Maybe we will get as far as Zion National Park and have to head back east. Maybe we will get to the ocean, see the coastal redwoods and have to zip back home without getting to see all the other great stuff we have planned. [Maybe there simply will not be enough time left for the Spam Museum, Ellen]
Who knows how far we will get? Honestly, it doesn't really matter to me because I will be spending five weeks with my best friend, the woman I love - yes, the one with a killer right hook! And, oh yes, I did end up marrying that cutie and we have enjoyed life's highways and byways ever since! You can be sure of one thing, I will certainly behave myself cause if I don't, that right hook is always poised and waiting! [haha - just kiddin' dear]
Sunday, May 3, 2009
How About Those Plans
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Safety First!
If you did not get a chance to read our last posting, you really need to do that to more fully understand and appreciate this one. So...
Jackie! You simply cannot believe what we found for you! As we were out preparing our butts for the Great Adventure, we came across this jewel! Definitely a safe ride - it seems like it would be safe as a tank! It even has plenty of room to get all of your junk... [I mean], stuff down to college with you. BONUS!
What do you think, kiddo?! I bet we could even get it for a good deal. Do you want us to look into it? Of course, you need to let us know right away because I bet this beauty won't be around for long!
We were able to get about five hours in the saddle today. First, we had to check on the car and make some decisions on how we should proceed. It looks like it will be totalled. The front clip is busted up and pushed back far enough that the doors both catch when you try to open them. The drivers door is bent all up and the window is busted out. The bumper cover is destroyed and the rear end has some damage as well [the car's rear end, not ours - the new saddle is great!]. But, all things considered - Oldsmobile, you make one tough car!
Next, we traveled a couple hours to one of the large motorcycle shops in the area to look at some new gear for the trip. We are pretty cheap though, so we didn't buy anything. Wednesday we will go out and pick up some gear that we have finally decided buy - a couple new helmets and a new headset. I know... BLAH BLAH BLAH... boring! But you should try to get a couple extra bucks out of my wife - no easy task, I can assure you of that!
The good stuff was actually all the secondary roads we traveled and the time spent together. There is a tremendous beauty that surrounds us every day and we cannot ever take that for granted! We tend to take too much for granted - family, friends, blessings, creation - you know, stuff! Most of all, we tend to forget about how special our spouse is and how much they bring to our lives.
Dawn and I cherish our time together and can never get enough of it... all because of that crazy calendar with all the little squares filled with scribbles that equate to meetings, appointments and obligations which seem to be a requirement of the 21st century. You know, I lost my day planner [which my kids have affectionately named, "Your Life, Dad!"] last summer and thought my life was over! (no pun intended, haha) That was the first appointment calendar I have ever lost and I can assure you, it already had the next 12 months planned out. Now that was scary! But, you know, I actually survived the ordeal. Hmmm... is that further evidence that there is life after death? Get it? Life after death? Ahhh... never mind.
Well Jackie, make the time to study for finals - schedule it in if you must. Remember to trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledge Him and he will make your paths straight.
By the way, we really like that car! What do you think?
And for all who may be reading this... remember to proceed with caution! The curves can really get you! Take the time to spend with those who are close to you cause you never know...
A Curve In The Road
Well, we had one of those experiences yesterday. Dawn and I got home a little after 11:00pm from visiting her parents (who live an hour away from us), just started settling in for the evening - you know, take care of the dog, brush the teeth, and so on - when the phone starts ringing.
Now just a little background on the day. Jackie is out with a friend. Adam is in Pittsburgh at a Red concert (Red is a hot new band with three members who are good friends of ours). Dawn's mother is suffering from degenerating health diseases, and we have three aging grandmothers. So a call after eleven really messes with the mind! Dawn reluctantly answered the phone with so many possibilities running through her mind. I was wondering if Jackie was in trouble, or if Dawn's mother suddenly took a turn for the worse, or maybe it was Adam in trouble.
Dawn began pacing, then headed for the stairs. I could tell by the pace of the conversation that there was trouble - it was Adam... he was okay... "Mom, everyone is okay, but I don't think the car is gonna be drivable anymore."
Now the mind goes into high gear and begins covering all the bases. What happened? How did it happen? How is the other driver? Did you call 911? Etc., etc., etc.!!!!
We find out they are about an hour and a half south of our house on the highway, and yes everyone is okay. The other car is in the median and the police are on the way. "Don't worry, I am on my way. I will be there as soon as I can! Hang tight and call me on the cell if anything changes."
Dawn starts praying and thanking God for, once again, watching over our children and their friends.
I jump in the truck and head down the road. I thank the Lord over and over for keeping them safe - after all when traveling down the road at 11:00pm going 65mph and getting run off the highway by another vehicle into a guiderail [I have a friend who works at PennDOT who emphatically pointed out that they are NOT called guardrails - go figure] anyway - when you hit the guiderail at that point and spin 180 degrees, hit the guiderail again, spin another 180 degrees and end up in the middle of the highway with four people in the car and the other car doing the same... you kind of expect more to happen than a couple of bumps and bruises. Well, literally, there were three bruises - Adam bruised a toe, Patrick and Christine one ear each (from bouncing off of their side windows) and Matt - who happened to be driving planned it just right and ended up without a mark! [I know, Matt, I know - this was certainly unplanned!]
One never plans for something like this, it just happens. It is a curve in the road that we cannot see around. What is just around the bend is out of sight for us. We don't know what is there. We assume the road is clear. We slow to ensure that we can negotiate whatever might be there, but in the end we simply cannot see the whole picture. As it happened, on this curve, Matt was rolling along at the speed limit of 65mph. The other driver was upset and traveling in the passing lane - much faster than Matt I might add - when she received a phone call. As she began looking for her cell phone in the dark her attention was drawn away from the road and she failed to negotiate the curve in the road just as she was passing the kids [haha, kids, they are all in their 20's and 30's!]. Matt said it was like a perfect police maneuver, she pushed their front end right into the guiderail and the rest is history!
So beyond the obvious thoughts of safety, what could we possibly be thankful for? Well, for various reasons the kids asked to borrow our car for the trip which proved to be extremely safe - much safer than any of their much smaller cars. Christine had an opportunity to pray with and try to console the other driver - a very different experience than most drivers would have after pushing another vehicle into a guiderail. Another blessing is that we have a couple other cars to rely on while this is straightened out - each of the kids are depending on one vehicle each. Perhaps one of the biggest blessings is that some basic safety practices were reinforced - WEAR YOUR SEAT BELTS AND DON'T BE DISTRACTED FROM THE ROAD BY YOUR CELL PHONE!
On the way home, as we all talked about the evening then moved beyond the shock of it all we had opportunity to laugh at Adam and Matt's comedy routine [these guys are really funny when you get them together]. As I was pondering Adam's bruised toe, the memory of playing, "This Piggy Went to Market," with his toes when he was just a tiny little guy and experiencing the joy of his inevitable laugh as the last little piggy went, "weeee, all the way home!" welled up in my heart and I was truly thankful that the memories we will make together will continue.
There will come a day when we will rejoice as we enter into The Kingdom, but this day is not Adam's or the kids. Of course, I couldn't let the moment pass without a small jibe, "Adam, the angels in heaven are rejoicing because you did not end up "going home" tonight to bother them!" Haha... just kiddin' ya Adam, just kiddin'!
Jackie's comment to her brother... "What? You wrecked my car? Thanks a lot Adam!" Of course, she was just having some fun with her brother... or was she?!
Stay tuned Jackie, we may have found something for you!
Friday, May 1, 2009
The Anticipation
That is the way things seem to go in this life though, a simple seed is planted, it takes root and the next thing you know it has grown into something that you couldn't foresee. Kind of like our children. They are conceived and we think we have their lives all figured out and then they hit the teenage years and we learn that we really had nothing figured out after all! Well, at least that is the way it seems. We think we see it all from the beginning to the end for them - not intentionally mind you, it just kind of happens. Later in life we find out that, just like us, they have developed their own interests and personalities, friendships and relationships. If you have young children, remember the old proverb, "raise them in the way they should go and when they are old they will not depart from it." After those teenage years, with your continued love, they will come back around.
Dawn and I have two great kids (I know, I know, they are children - some of you think of goats when I say kids, I have been corrected more than once for that - sorry. Of course, sometimes they remind me of... never mind!). Now where was I? Oh yes, our kids, Adam and Jackie. They have grown into a couple of great young adults. We couldn't be more proud of them. In fact we were thinking primarily of them when we set up this blog so they could follow us on the Great Adventure. Jackie enjoys writing and texting and all those social things young adults like to do so we thought she would really enjoy reading our blog. While Adam is into hanging out with friends and gaming after work. So naturally, we thought that Jackie would follow the blog and Adam would probably never look at it.
Like I said before, one never knows. When we asked them if they would be interested in following us on the blog, it was Adam who said he would probably [meaning, maybe once or twice?] check it out and Jackie who said that we didn't need to take the time to do that [translated... ?].
It seems as though everyone has some input for our trip and many would love to be in our saddle. Of course there are many others who think we are more than a little short in the marble department. Five weeks on a motorcycle traveling the highways and byways of America might sound crazy, however, to some very jealous people, it would be like experiencing a slice of heaven!
As I was talking to Ellen about our "bike" trip to the west coast, Michelle asked rather incredulously, "How are you getting back?" We are riding back of course, how else? She was amazed that we could ride so far... of course, she didn't realize that our bike had an engine - a ride to the west coast and back on a bicycle, now that would really be newsworthy! What do you think, Dawn - sound like next year's trip?